Showing posts with label holidays. Show all posts
Showing posts with label holidays. Show all posts

Monday, January 15, 2024

Reflections on MLK Day

Funeral procession for Martin Luther King, Jr., April 9, 1968

There are dates in history that are seared in our minds -- John F. Kennedy's assassination, the moon landing, Nixon's resignation, the failed launch of the Challenger space shuttle, and 9/11. I was too young to remember JFK's death and I slept right through the moon landing, even though I had asked my mom to wake me up so I could see the astronauts take those first steps. The others are vivid in my memory.


My first memory of a public event was Martin Luther King's funeral in 1968, not so much because I knew he was a great man who had been murdered, but because my parents left us with a babysitter that afternoon so they could join the tens of thousands who walked in the procession through the streets of downtown Atlanta. A couple of years later, I was miffed that my grandparents, who came to hear me present a report on King Henry VIII to my 5th grade class, were more interested in the fact that my classmate, Dexter King, the younger of MLK's two sons, was lying on the floor under a table in the living room section of our classroom, than in my carefully researched work. 


These memories are of course colored now by my grownup understanding of King's work. And thankfully given that his birthday is a national holiday, this is not forgotten (although sometimes terribly misinterpreted in bad faith). Today, the airwaves and newspapers will be full of tributes and I'm sure we'll be hearing plenty of "I have a dream" and "injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere" as the appreciations roll out.  


But for me, the words of Dr. King that resonate most deeply, with both admiration and some measure of embarrassment, are from his "Letter from a Birmingham Jail," written in April 1963 after his arrest in the course of nonviolent demonstrations against racism and racial segregation. In his letter, addressed to the city’s white clergy, King admonishes them for doing too little too late – for not throwing their shoulders behind the wheel, for not using their power to bring about true justice.


“I must make two honest confessions to you, my Christian and Jewish brothers. First, I must confess that over the past few years I have been gravely disappointed with the white moderate. I have almost reached the regrettable conclusion that the Negro’s great stumbling block in his stride toward freedom is not the White Citizen’s Counciler or the Ku Klux Klanner, but the white moderate, who is more devoted to “order” than to justice; who prefers a negative peace which is the absence of tension to a positive peace which is the presence of justice; who constantly says: “I agree with you in the goal you seek, but I cannot agree with your methods of direct action”; who paternalistically believes he can set the timetable for another man’s freedom; who lives by a mythical concept of time and who constantly advises the Negro to wait for a “more convenient season..."

 

“I felt that the white ministers, priests and rabbis of the South would be among our strongest allies. Instead, some have been outright opponents….all too many others have been more cautious than courageous and have remained silent behind the anesthetizing security of stained glass windows.”


Ouch. 


So today, when you hear the words delivered at the March on Washington, on receipt of the Nobel Peace Prize, or any other occasion, remember that we (and particularly those of us who are privileged) are called to do more than just honor Dr. King. We are also called to do more than write checks, read and reflect, and go to the occasional march or protest. These are all fine but they are not sufficient. The work of justice requires us to get off the sidelines and get into the thick of it now, and not when most convenient; to speak up even when it may seem embarrassing or feel impolite; to listen and support our neighbors who are fighting for things that many of us take for granted.

One of the most meaningful things I've been doing in retirement is becoming more actively involved in the Washington Interfaith Network, an organization comprised of dozens of houses of worship across DC, where we are challenged to build deep relationships -- across race and across faith --  and work productively to build affordable housing, improve the conditions of public housing, strengthen opportunities for Black homeownership, address threats posed by climate change, and address the epidemic of gun violence that is shattering many communities in Washington. 


The work can be slow and it can be frustrating, but even so, it is also soul strengthening. It's something else to sit in the sanctuary at Metropolitan AME Church and listen to the powerful words of its pastor, Rev. William Lamar, surrounded by others who are in common cause. It's stirring to listen to the choir at Varick Memorial in Ward 7 and then cheer on neighborhood residents as they demand specific actions of city council members. And it is joyful to celebrate WIN's wins with people from all these different congregations, most of whom I would otherwise never meet.


We are still a long way from Dr. King's vision of the beloved community. But engaging in direct action and doing more than, as he said, "mouth pious irrelevancies and sanctimonious trivialities" seems like a pretty decent start.



Monday, January 1, 2024

New Year's Resolutions

It's that time of year when news content is full of best of lists, retrospectives, predictions, and suggestions for New Year's resolutions. I guess I should be happy that there is a counterweight to headlines about bombings, disinformation campaigns, and the effects of climate change.  Even so, I find that these stories make me feel inadequate. I read 60 books this year but not a single one from the New York Times' 10 best books. Oppenheimer was the only one of the Times' 10 best movies that I saw and honestly, I didn't love it. And I only think I heard one song off of Rolling Stones' top 10 from the year but that's only because I saw the Barbie movie. (Full disclosure:  I don't even know who some of those artists are.)

When it comes to making New Year's resolutions, I am decidedly on the fence. NPR's Life Kit has helpfully provided a list of 50 (!) suggestions for things I could be doing to make my life better.  Thankfully, I can check some of these off my 2024 to do list:  e.g., get married, decide whether to have kids, and quit my job. There are some chestnuts here around diet and exercise, plus a few that don't appeal at all (get into birding). 

The experts say that writing things down or worse yet, posting them to social media, creates a stronger mechanism for accountability than just having an abstract goal in your head. That makes a certain kind of sense but in my experience, it's not the list writing that does the trick when it comes to creating new habits or using my time more fruitfully. I just need that switch to go off in my head. It's either going to happen or not, and I couldn't tell you why that switch sometimes goes off and sometimes, it remains stubbornly untouched.

One thing I will publicly commit to is to publish something here every Monday in 2024. I hope you'll come back and better yet, leave me a comment or invite a friend to read along as well.  Wishing everyone a happy, healthy, and peaceful new year. 

Until next week......


Monday, December 25, 2023

Merry Christmas!

The neighbors are once again outdoing themselves with the array of holiday inflatables decorating their lawns. But for whatever reason, I don't find the Christmas-related ones nearly as intriguing as those put up for Halloween. I do love a good display of lights, whether they be the white twinkly ones or the more traditional multi-colored string.  However, my photographic skills are not sufficient to capture these effectively.

So merry Christmas to all who celebrate and to all those who enjoy the festivities no matter their faith. And I'll leave you with this photo of a creative and low-cost approach to decorating.




Monday, November 20, 2023

Happy Thanksgiving!

It's a busy week for most of us but since I'm trying to stick with a regular routine of posting every Monday, I'd thought I'd pop in to wish everyone a happy Thanksgiving. The list of things for which I am thankful is quite long, not the least of which is a giant turkey inflatable.
























Plus who wouldn't mind a cheerful seasonal greeting from Tigger?  Enjoy the turkey and pie and don't start a fight at the dinner table with your crazy uncle.



Monday, October 30, 2023

Boo! Part 2

I said last week that the neighbors were all in on Halloween, but some people have really gone next level.  

Being clever and audacious is what gets points here. While I celebrate enthusiasm of those who decorate their yards with a little bit of everything -- tombstones, a witch's striped stockings coming out of the ground, a random skeleton or two, plus a random trick or treating cartoon character -- I get the feeling that these seem more like "art as process" than anything else. Just like the dozens of "art" works that my kids produced in nursery school (most of which I tossed almost immediately), these yards seem to be more for the enjoyment of the decorators than the viewers.  Also no fake cobwebs -- I mean who thinks that mess looks anything like cobwebs.

So on to my picks for best in show.

The Georgetown Skellys in designer attire (they even have their own Instagram account) 























Smaller effort but major points for creepiness and for repurposing the toys your kids no longer use















Skeletons who've caught the pickleball bug












A 13 foot Jack Skellington from Tim Burton's The Nightmare Before Christmas.  He's animatronic with motion sensors that will set off his mouth and hand movements.  And for $399, one should definitely expect that level of spookiness.  One neighbor has added an additional song feature.
















A Barbie house on a corner lot in Glover Park/Burleith.  By the way, it looks like Barbie Pond on Avenue Q has a new look for Halloween with its haunted Malibu dream-house. 

















But the prize definitely goes to this house.  I took a bunch of pictures two weeks ago and then when I went by on Saturday, I found that additional figures had been added.  

First, the whole house view and then some details.







































That's it for Halloween.  Stay tuned in case the neighbors pull out all the stops at Christmas.





Monday, October 23, 2023

Boo!

The neighbors have gone nuts decorating for Halloween. I've snapped so many pictures that I will have to do this in two parts -- a potpourri of themes today and then my best-in-show next week. For the record, my Halloween decorations consist of a pumpkin I bought at Safeway. Rest assured that trick or treaters will be welcome at my house -- at least until 9 pm when all the little ones should be home in bed or stuffing themselves with chocolate.

First up are the witches.


































Next up: pumpkins



Tasteful
Cheerful
All in on the theme










Squirrels at work














Which brings us to all manner of skeletons:



Die-hard Nationals fan
The whole family just settin' out on the stoop

Traditionally spooky
For Game of Thrones enthusiasts
The little mermaid of your nightmares

Aging rocker















And finally (for today), inflatables:














































































See you next week!


Sunday, December 25, 2011

Christmas Decorating DC Style Part III

My trusty Canon camera, the one that shot over 7,000 photos in three years living abroad, up and died this week. It still takes pictures but the screen is shot, and technology being what it is these days, there's really no point in investing in repairs. My husband came to the rescue with the new upgraded version of my previously Old Faithful, and this one takes semi decent night-time shots. And so I bring you one more round of holiday decorations, the evening version.

The blowup characters are everywhere with Santa driving a range of vehicles.





You've got your puppies, and snowmen, and of course, a blow up creche:




And lots and lots of lights.




Happy Christmas all.